Today is Father's day. And in another 10 days, my dad is stepping into a new phase in his life, yes, he will be turning 60. So, I think there is no other apt time to write a few words about my hero here. I know that whatever words I write here won't do good to give a complete picture of him and our relationship, but I will try my best.
My dad, A primary school teacher with a very simple life,I remember my childhood days when he takes me and my sister to his school in his bicycle singing some songs from the 60's and 70's all the way. When I was in school, just like any kid, I always make trouble to wake up and get ready. He is a man with lot of patience, he will try to wake me up with lots of love and affection, with ma brush in hand, will get the hot water ready for my shower, have my uniforms ready and shoes polished.
I don't remember a single incident where he raised his voice against us when we do mistakes. All he does is to give us a piece of advice with the same soft tone. When I was young, I always hate keeping things in order (well, even now I do have that bad habit to some extent) and he always was there to get them back to order. If at all I have developed some good habits in life, all credits goes to him.
Though he was a school teacher, he never tried to interfere in things related to our education and gave us all freedom to choose what we wanted. Whatever he says will always just come as a suggestion and not an order, leaving the final decision to ourselves. He planted the habits of decision making and saving money from the very young age, which I think is very much helpful when I started managing my own life.
He always stands with us to fulfill our dreams and he sacrifices a lot for that. Even during tough times, he always tried to make sure we get what we need in terms of our education and other things. I know how much he struggled to get me my first motor-bike just because I loved to have one and also he didn't want me to suffer traveling the hard way to my college.When I decided not to take a job but to pursue with my higher education, again, he extended his support wholeheartedly.
I am not sure whether I am playing my part right, but, one day when I become a dad, I know what I should do. And if I am going to play that part right, all credits goes to my dad...My Hero!!!
I know that I can't be there close to him when he turns 60 but we are always connected.
My Advance Birthday Wishes to U... Luv U Dad... :))
OMG...........i dont hav words to describe my feeling after goin through your expression..........in simple state its ultimate.
ReplyDeletejust viewed my childhood.............and off course day till today.
in same way i can show my LOVE to my Father............."ALL FATHERS ARE GREAT"
LOVE YOU PAPA.
Thanks a lot. It makes me feel that I have done a decent write-up here.
ReplyDeleteHave a good day!!!
Great sriram,
ReplyDeleteI remember that you said about your father. Once you said that he will never scold you or beat you, I didn't believed at that time.
Also you challenged me that he will give even 100rs, even if you didn't say how you going to spend it. (as we know 100rs is big amount at that time of 90's). I blindly accept and thought that no one will give like that. we both went to your father's school in an evening.
you : pa I need 100rs.
Your father : why da?
you : just give it . I need.
This goes like same above question and answer for twice or thrice repeatedly .
Your father : Searching in his pocket and taken a 100 and give it to you. Also he said to his nearest colleague with a laugh that " my kid wont spend unnecessarily. he saves some money and Also he gives it to me if I ask in short of budget in month ending days."
I watched full scene with full opened mouth. And In climax I think i should behave to my kid like your father.
Your father Inspired me also , Thanks you both.
Haha... True indeed. My dad always say that one should have complete faith with their kids. I always knew that he will never question me on how I spend the money and that faith he had never allowed me to spend it in the wrong way (I think the maximum thing I might have done is to spend it on some eatables).
DeleteI naturally had the habit of saving part of the money I got from him and it was useful in couple occasions for him, so he never questioned when I asked money to him.
I myself think I should be like my dad in raising my kid, lets see how it goes. :)